Built-in bookshelves on the stair landing

For families

Family resources

What to expect, who to call and how to pay for it, in plain words.

For families

For the family

Practical answers for the sons, daughters and friends who help someone move in.

  1. 01

    Visiting

    The front door is open from seven to nine, and the garden door has a keypad for evening visits. Tea at four is open to everyone.

  2. 02

    Who to call

    Debra Kincaid, RN, for anything about health. Claire Hanlon for anything else. Both will give you their cell numbers.

  3. 03

    Care conferences

    Every six months, and whenever needs change. Join in person, by phone or on a video call.

  4. 04

    Moving day

    We measure the apartment, send you a floor plan and help hang pictures on day one so it looks like home by supper.

  5. 05

    Laundry and labels

    Label clothes with our iron-on tags, which we give you at move-in. Laundry goes out Monday and Thursday.

  6. 06

    Meals with your person

    Join any meal with a day's notice. Sunday dinner fills up, so call by Friday.

Insurance & payment

Paying for Ladd Manor

Most families use more than one of these. Marisol will sit down with you and work out the numbers before you decide.

Private pay

Monthly rent plus a care level, billed together. No entrance fee, and a written estimate before you sign.

Long-term care insurance

Many policies cover assisted living. We complete the monthly paperwork for you.

VA Aid and Attendance

Eligible wartime veterans and surviving spouses may receive a monthly pension that helps with care costs.

KanCare Frail Elderly waiver

For residents who qualify, KanCare can help pay for care services, though not rent, in a limited number of apartments.

Ask our business office

Activities & dining

A week at the Manor

A sample week. The full calendar goes up on the hall board and out to families by email on the first of the month.

  1. Mon

    • Chair exercise in the great room
    • Tea at four with piano
  2. Tue

    • Garden club at the raised beds
    • Stylist in the beauty shop
  3. Wed

    • Library book club
    • Van to the Independence grocery
  4. Thu

    • Chapel in the music room
    • Pinochle tournament
  5. Fri

    • Porch social and lemonade
  6. Sat

    • Saturday brunch and a movie
  7. Sun

    • Sunday dinner with families

Today's menu

  • BreakfastButtermilk pancakes, sausage, stewed apples
  • LunchChicken salad on a croissant, tomato soup
  • Tea at fourLemon bars and Earl Grey
  • SupperPot roast with carrots, mashed potatoes, parker house rolls

Good to know

Questions, answered

What is assisted living, exactly?

Your own apartment plus help with the daily things that have gotten hard: bathing, dressing, medications, meals. It is not a nursing home; there is a nurse on site, but residents do not need round-the-clock skilled nursing.

How much does Ladd Manor cost?

Monthly rent depends on the apartment, and a care level is added after our nurse's assessment. Marisol will give you both numbers in writing at your tour.

Does Medicare pay for assisted living?

No. Medicare does not cover rent or personal care in assisted living, though it still covers doctor visits, therapy and home health visits you receive here.

Does KanCare help?

KanCare, Kansas's Medicaid program, can help pay for care services in assisted living through its Frail Elderly waiver for residents who qualify. It does not cover rent. We have a limited number of apartments for waiver residents; ask us about openings.

Can veterans get help paying?

Wartime veterans and surviving spouses may qualify for the VA's Aid and Attendance pension. We can point you to a county veterans service officer who helps with the application.

Is there a nurse on site?

A licensed nurse is in the house seven days a week, and our director of health services is on call nights. Caregivers are awake and on the floor all night.

Can I bring my own furniture?

Please do. We provide the apartment empty unless you ask for it furnished. Most people bring a bed, a favorite chair, a dresser and their pictures.

Can couples live together?

Yes. Several of our garden wing one-bedrooms are home to couples, including some where only one spouse needs care.

Are pets allowed?

Cats and small dogs are welcome in the garden wing if you can care for them. Our house cat, Pickles, lives in the parlor.

What happens if my care needs change?

Our nurse reassesses at least every six months and any time something changes. Many needs can be met here; if someone needs skilled nursing, we help the family find the right place.

Is the old house accessible?

Yes. An elevator serves both floors of the house, the porch has a ramp on the garden side, and every bathroom has grab bars and a walk-in shower.

Can I keep my own doctor?

Yes. Our van takes you to appointments in Independence, or you can see our visiting physician here once a month.

Can I still drive?

If you are safe to drive, yes. Residents with cars have reserved spots by the garden wing.

What about church?

Thursday chapel is held in the house, and our van runs to several churches in town on Sunday mornings.

Can family stay for a meal?

Any meal, with a day's notice for Sunday dinner. Guest meals are a few dollars and charged to the apartment.

Is there a waiting list?

Sometimes, especially for house apartments. A refundable deposit holds your place, and we call as soon as the right apartment opens.

There is a chair in the parlor with your name on it.

Call or text Claire to set a time. If you come at four, the tea is already poured.