A rustic wooden bench surrounded by vibrant pink roses in a lush garden setting, capturing a peaceful outdoor ambiance.

Our story

How we got here

The people, the place and the promise behind every day of care.

Our story

Twenty-two years of roses

A caregiver and a resident sharing a laugh on the sofa
A resident playing guitar for his wife by the window
A resident holding a red rose in the rose garden
A couple dancing at the spring party
A resident resting among the blooms in the greenhouse
A couple reading together on their sofa
Chapter 01

The first roses, 2004

Tom and Lucia Avery opened the first Bellwether on a quiet lane near downtown Broken Arrow, after caring for Lucia's mother at home for six years. Lucia planted forty rose bushes before the building had a roof.

Chapter 02

A garden at the center

Every room was laid out around the courtyard so that every resident could see something growing from their chair. It was not the cheapest way to build. It was the way Lucia insisted on.

Chapter 03

The Arbor, 2009

When residents with memory loss began to need a gentler day, the Averys built a small secured neighborhood around a second garden. They named it The Arbor, after the grape arbor Lucia's mother had in Okmulgee.

Chapter 04

Owasso, 2014

Families on the north side of Tulsa kept asking for a Bellwether closer to them. The Owasso home opened with the same layout, the same menus and two of the original Broken Arrow caregivers.

Chapter 05

Bixby, 2020

The Bixby home opened beside the river in the hardest year any of us remember. The garden there is the largest, planted by residents, staff and a lot of Bixby families who came to help.

Chapter 06

The next generation

Marisol, who did her homework at the nurses' station, now leads all three homes. Her mother still visits on Sundays to check on the roses, and on whether the scones are warm.

  • 2004the year the first roses went in
  • 3homes around Tulsa, one family
  • 148apartments and suites in all
  • 6:1residents to caregivers in The Arbor by day

Ratings & recognition · sample

  • Tulsa Readers’ Choice · Best Assisted Living
  • Regional Senior Living Awards · Memory Care
  • Garden Club Council · Community Garden Award
  • Broken Arrow Chamber · Business of the Year
  • Family Satisfaction Survey · 97% would recommend
  • Regional Business Journal · Top Workplaces
  • State Assisted Living Association · Member
  • Dementia-Friendly Community · Partner
  • Local Hospital System · Preferred Partner

Come sit in the garden with us.

Call or text Marisol's team to arrange a tour at any of our three homes. Tea is at three.