A resident arranging dahlias and roses on the greenhouse bench in the morning light

Assisted living & memory care · Broken Arrow, Owasso & Bixby

Mornings in the garden. Help close at hand.

Three assisted living homes around Tulsa, each built around a garden, each with a small memory care neighborhood, and all run by the same family since 2004.

A note from Marisol

Every one of our homes starts with a garden.

When my parents opened the first Bellwether in Broken Arrow, my mother planted the roses before the drywall was finished. She said people would come for the care but stay for the place, and that the place should smell like something growing. Twenty-two years later, each of our three homes is built around a courtyard garden, and every resident who wants a bed of their own gets one.

Inside the garden walls is everything else: caregivers awake all night, a nurse who knows each medication by heart, a dining room with linen napkins, and in each home a small memory care neighborhood called The Arbor, for residents who need a gentler, more watchful day.

Marisol Avery, CALA · Executive Director

A resident placing a jar of marigolds on the garden rail

What sets us apart

What families notice first

Two residents sharing dinner by lamplight in the dining room
01

Help with bathing and dressing

At the hour you prefer, by caregivers who knock, wait and ask.

Care plan
A caregiver and a resident sharing a laugh on the sofa
02

A secured garden neighborhood

Twelve to sixteen suites around a walled courtyard, so residents can walk outside freely and safely.

Memory care rate
A resident playing guitar for his wife by the window
03

Three seated meals a day

Linen napkins, real china and two choices at every meal, cooked in each home's own kitchen.

Included

We believe a good day can still be ordinary: coffee on the porch, a bloom worth noticing, someone who knows how you like your tea. We build our care around that.

Rooms & suites

Apartments that open to the light

Every apartment has a private bath with a walk-in shower, emergency call, and a window toward the garden or the trees. Bring the furniture you love.

Elegant minimalist bedroom with white bedding, plants, and natural light
01

Garden studio

One bright room with a kitchenette and a window over the courtyard beds.

  • Kitchenette
  • Walk-in shower
  • Garden view
390 sq ft
A beautifully designed bedroom featuring modern decor with natural light and an outdoor view.
02

One-bedroom apartment

A separate bedroom and a sitting room big enough for your favorite chair and a tea table.

  • Separate bedroom
  • Walk-in closet
  • Kitchenette
560 sq ft
Inviting indoor porch with skylight, wicker sofa, and vibrant decor, perfect for relaxation.
03

One-bedroom with sunroom

A glassed-in porch facing the garden, for morning coffee and afternoon naps.

  • Private sunroom
  • Garden-facing
  • Full refrigerator
680 sq ft
Inviting modern living room featuring a leather sofa, armchair, and a warm fireplace for relaxation.
04

Two-bedroom apartment

For couples, or for a bedroom and a sewing room, a study or a guest room for visiting family.

  • Two bedrooms
  • Two baths
  • Living room
880 sq ft
Tranquil modern bedroom with cozy white bedding and classic wood accents.
05

Arbor memory care suite

A private suite in The Arbor, with a memory box by the door and a window onto the secured courtyard.

  • Private bath
  • Courtyard view
  • Memory box
330 sq ft
A clean and modern bedroom interior with a comfortable bed and wooden flooring.
06

Respite suite

Furnished down to the quilt, for stays of a week or more.

  • Furnished
  • All meals
  • Week-to-week
380 sq ft

Sample family reviews

Kind words from families

Mama gardened her whole life. The first morning, Celeste handed her a trowel and a flat of petunias. She cried, and then she got to work.
Laura B.Daughter of a resident, Broken Arrow
Dad is in The Arbor now. Kwame sings Hank Williams with him every afternoon. On his worst days, that still works.
Tim R.Son of a memory care resident
We toured six places. Bellwether was the only one where the residents were outside.
Christine M.Daughter of a resident, Owasso
Priya gave us every fee on one sheet of paper before we sat down. In three years there has not been a single surprise.
Raymond D.Son of a resident
Afternoon tea is my favorite hour of the day. I've made more friends at that table than I did in thirty years of church potlucks.
Evelyn S.Resident, Bixby
When my husband moved to memory care, they found me an apartment right down the hall. I can have breakfast with him every morning.
Margaret K.Wife of a memory care resident
Joan called me at seven in the morning to say Mom seemed off. By noon the doctor had found a urinary infection. That call saved us a hospital stay.
Angela P.Daughter of a resident
The food is honestly better than mine. Don't tell my mother I said that, although she already knows.
Derek H.Son of a resident
Emmanuel helped us get Dad's VA Aid and Attendance approved. It took four months and he never let it drop.
Lisa W.Daughter of a veteran resident
I came for two weeks of respite after my hip. Six months later I'm still here, and my tomatoes are the best on the patio.
Harold F.Resident, Owasso
When Mom died, the staff lined the hallway as she left. Pastor Grant sat with us for an hour. I will never forget their kindness.
Sharon T.Daughter of a former resident
A resident painting at the watercolor class

Our story

Twenty-two years of roses

Tom and Lucia Avery opened the first Bellwether on a quiet lane near downtown Broken Arrow, after caring for Lucia's mother at home for six years. Lucia planted forty rose bushes before the building had a roof.

Read our story

Our team

The people who tend Bellwether

Marisol Avery, CALA, Executive Director

Marisol Avery, CALA

Executive Director

Joan Whitfield, RN, Director of Nursing

Joan Whitfield, RN

Director of Nursing

Adaeze Okoro, LPN, Wellness Nurse, Broken Arrow

Adaeze Okoro, LPN

Wellness Nurse, Broken Arrow

Dr. Leila Haddad, MD, Medical Director

Dr. Leila Haddad, MD

Medical Director

Meet the team

  • 2004the year the first roses went in
  • 3homes around Tulsa, one family
  • 148apartments and suites in all
  • 6:1residents to caregivers in The Arbor by day
A couple reading together on their sofa

Admissions

Moving in, gently

Priya is your one contact from the first call to the first month, at whichever home you choose.

  • A free care assessment at home or in the hospital
  • Every fee on one page before you decide
  • A floor plan and a list of what fits
  • Movers we trust, and pictures hung before the first night
  • A welcome tea with new neighbors
  • A call to the family after the first week and the first month

Ratings & recognition · sample

  • Tulsa Readers’ Choice · Best Assisted Living
  • Regional Senior Living Awards · Memory Care
  • Garden Club Council · Community Garden Award
  • Broken Arrow Chamber · Business of the Year
  • Family Satisfaction Survey · 97% would recommend
  • Regional Business Journal · Top Workplaces
  • State Assisted Living Association · Member
  • Dementia-Friendly Community · Partner
  • Local Hospital System · Preferred Partner

Now hiring

Caregivers, nurses and cooks at three homes around Tulsa.

Visit

Come for tea in the garden

Tour & office hours

  • Tours, Mon – Sat9:30a – 5:30p
  • Tours, SundayBy appointment
  • Office, Mon – Fri8a – 5p
  • Families visitAny time

Afternoon tea is served at three in every home. Tour guests are always invited.

Come sit in the garden with us.

Call or text Marisol's team to arrange a tour at any of our three homes. Tea is at three.