Three friends sharing a basket of appetizers in the café

For families

Family resources

Moving a parent is a team project. Here's what helps, from the first phone call to the first holiday.

For families

Family hub

Everything adult kids ask us, in one place. Bookmark it and share it with your siblings.

  1. 01

    Planning the move

    Carla will meet you at your parent's house, measure furniture and make a moving plan with a calendar everyone can see.

  2. 02

    The first month

    We pair every new resident with a neighbor buddy who introduces them around and walks them to coffee for the first two weeks.

  3. 03

    Staying in the loop

    Sign up for our monthly family email with the calendar, the menu and photos from outings.

  4. 04

    Visiting

    Come any time. Book the guest apartment, join us for Sunday brunch or bring the grandkids to the pool on a Saturday.

  5. 05

    When health changes

    If your parent agrees, Grace will call you after a fall or hospital stay and help sort out home care or next steps.

  6. 06

    Holidays

    Families are invited to our Thanksgiving lunch, the Christmas light parade and the Fourth of July cookout.

Insurance & payment

Paying for it

Our business office will sit down with you and compare costs honestly. Here's how most residents pay.

Monthly rent

Most residents pay rent from Social Security, pensions, savings or the sale of a house. There's no buy-in.

Long-term care insurance

Usually doesn't cover independent living rent, but many policies help pay for home care later. Bring your policy and we'll read it together.

Veterans benefits

Some veterans and surviving spouses qualify for VA pension benefits that can help with care costs. We'll connect you with a county veterans service officer.

Selling the house

We keep a list of local realtors and estate-sale companies, and we can be flexible on move-in dates while your house sells.

Ask our business office

Activities & dining

This week at Sunnyside

A sample week. The full calendar goes up on the clubhouse board and in every mailbox on the first of the month.

  1. Mon

    • Pickleball open play, 8:30
    • Pottery wheel class
  2. Tue

    • Water aerobics in the pool
    • Van to the Rose District
  3. Wed

    • Dance fitness with Becca
    • Choir rehearsal
  4. Thu

    • Bingo league, 7:00 (bring your lucky dauber)
  5. Fri

    • Catfish lunch and live country music
    • Movie night with popcorn
  6. Sat

    • Open house and pie contest
  7. Sun

    • Church van and family brunch

Today in the Sunroom Café

  • Breakfast barCinnamon rolls, biscuits and gravy, fresh fruit, coffee all morning
  • LunchChicken-fried steak, mashed potatoes, green beans
  • DessertSweet potato pie
  • Always availableSoup and salad bar, grilled cheese, burgers

Good to know

Questions, answered

Is Sunnyside Commons assisted living?

No. We're independent living: residents manage their own care and medications. If you ever need help at home, licensed home health and private-duty agencies can visit you here, and we'll help you find one.

Who can live here?

At least one resident in each home needs to be 62 or older. Couples, singles, siblings and friends sharing a two-bedroom are all welcome.

Is there a buy-in or entrance fee?

No. You sign a twelve-month lease and pay monthly rent. After the first year it goes month to month.

What does the rent include?

Utilities, Wi-Fi, cable, lunch every day, morning coffee, housekeeping every other week, maintenance, transportation and every club and class on the calendar. Our care and services page lists it all.

Does Medicare or Medicaid pay for this?

No. Medicare and Medicaid don't cover rent in independent living. Medicare still covers medical care you receive here, just as it would anywhere else.

Can I bring my pets?

Yes. Up to two pets per home, with a fenced dog park and a pet-washing station by the side door.

Can I keep my car?

Absolutely. Covered parking is included. Lots of residents drive, and lots of residents use the van so they don't have to deal with parking at the hospital.

Do I have to join activities?

Not at all. Some residents are at everything; some come to coffee and go home. Your apartment is yours and the calendar is optional.

What if my health changes?

Many residents add a few hours of home care and stay put. If you need more care than can be provided at home, we'll help you look at assisted living and nursing options nearby.

Can family stay overnight?

Yes. We have a furnished guest apartment families can book by the night, and grandkids are welcome at the pool on weekends with a resident.

Can I decorate or paint?

Yes. Hang pictures, paint an accent wall, put up shelves. Marcus will help with anything that needs a drill.

How do we get to doctors and hospitals?

Our van runs Monday through Saturday to most clinics in Broken Arrow and South Tulsa. Bigger hospitals in Tulsa are about twenty minutes away.

Is there a waiting list?

Sometimes for cottages. Apartments are usually available within a month or two. A refundable deposit holds your spot.

What happens if I travel for a while?

Go see the grandkids. We'll grab your mail, water the plants and keep an eye on things.

How do we get started?

Call or text Tamika, book a tour online or come to any Saturday open house. Lunch is on us.

Come for lunch. Stay for the bingo.

Call or text Tamika, or book a tour online. Bring your questions, your appetite and your competitive streak.